Nursing Rounds
I did not always want to be a nurse. It was not something I dreamed about. I never even thought about it as a career. When I was really young I wanted to be the lady that stood behind the cookie counter at our local grocery store. I couldn't think of a better profession than passing cookies to little kids and arranging them into neat rows inside the glass cases.
Then I went to high school and learned I was supposed to be thinking about what I wanted to do for a future career. I thought becoming a secretary sounded glamorous. I could dress up every day, wear heels, and file my nails while I waited for the phone to ring. So I enrolled in all the courses that would help me fulfill that dream. I took Shorthand I and Shorthand II, Typing, Bookkeeping, Dictaphone, Business math and Business Law. Any class that would get me into a business office went on my agenda. After I graduated from high school I enrolled in Salt City Business College. This school is now defunct. But I spent one year (and more money that I want to remember) to become a secretary. More shorthand, typing, dictation, and bookkeeping. I left school (without a diploma) and went to work in a business office.
AND I HATED IT!!
This was in 1970. I worked as a secretary until my son was born in 1971. Then I didn't go back to the office again until after Justin was born in 1975. I didn't like it any better but I needed a job. And this was what I was trained to do. So I continued working. And disliking what I was doing.
It was not until after I became a divorced, single mom in 1980 that I knew I was not going to be able to support my two young sons and myself working in a business office. So off to the local community college I took myself to find a new career.
I was interested in medicine. In hospitals. I thought maybe I wanted to work in a laboratory. Don't ask me why. I didn't have a reason. I asked the college counselor about courses that could take me in that direction. He started to outline the path I needed to follow. I got stuck on the word math! After he said math three times, I told him I didn't think that was for me. When he questioned me more closely about why I was wanting to change careers and found out that I wanted to make more money than a secretary made he wrote a figure on a piece of paper and slid it across the desk. The numbers were $18,000+. He said they had a new nursing program at the college. It was in it's first year.
Wow, a nurse was born. So I started my nursing education in 1980. For money! I became a nurse because I would make a lot more money. And I did make good money as a nurse. But along the way I fell in love with taking care of people. And I found my career.
I loved being a nurse! I will write more about my nursing education and career in the future.
Great start to a series I am sure to enjoy. I am so glad you are doing this.
ReplyDeleteFunny how we come around over time to the thing we were designed to do with our lives. I started in business in high school, switched to education in college (in 1966 the choices were education and nursing mostly) and I picked wrong, of course, taught for 4 years after graduation - didn't hate it but was glad to leave it with the birth of my first child and returned to working after the second child (like you, ha!). Went to a local college to find something to re-skill myself with - and picked medicine - but not nursing - still didn't think I could be good enough in math and science to be a nurse - medical assisting (caregiving) first, then moved into administration (business and education) and managed a medical department in the end. I must have been decent at it because it is rare to manage a medical department - and not be an RN. But I wasn't designed for that either. In the end I spent 8 years taking care of my mom, I think that was where I put all experiences together.
Once the stuff on my moving settles, I plan to find a volunteer position in an assisted living or nursing facility. FINALLY, I have figured out what to do with my life. I assume it is not too late to discover that at almost 70!! Ha.
Look forward to the next installment.
I have said it many times. If only I would have gone to nursing school when I left high school. But we have to learn the long way sometimes to make it important to us. And I still need my typing skills!!
DeleteNursing is hard work and they make the doctors look good. Doctors come in do rounds and leave orders for the nurses to do. They are the backbone of the hospital. I think you were wise to realize you needed a new career and then get the schooling you needed for it. I look forward to reading more.
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Nursing IS hard work. I think, over the years, most patients realized it was the nurses who were helping them get better. But it is sad that most hospitals value the doctors more than the nurses.
DeleteI'd think that a nurse would earn every single cent she was paid and probably more. You are very special people for sure !
ReplyDeleteThank you very much!
DeleteI'm glad you found the right career. We spend so much time working and that's hard if you don't like the job.
ReplyDeleteThat is what I tell the grandkids. Find something you love to do!!
DeleteI'm glad you're writing about nursing. I'll be looking forward to your future posts. We have four (former or current) medical personnel among our immediate family--three nurses and a radiology technician. The pay is not nearly enough for what they're called to do, but, boy, do they have some interesting stories!
ReplyDeleteI would disagree about the pay. Nurses are paid very well for what they do. Most people who think they aren't making enough money are comparing their wage to that of a doctor. Doctors have far more responsibilities and many more school loans. For the most part. I made good money!!
DeleteAll rising to a great place is by a circular route. Francis Bacon.
ReplyDeleteGreat quote!!
DeleteNice to learn more about you. I spent ten years in laboratory medicine then left to have my children. The next career was finance with a side of politics. It is always interesting to learn how folks got where they are. I look forward to your future posts.
ReplyDeleteThank you Denise! I am enjoying writing them and remembering where I have been and what it took to get to where I now am!!
DeleteI had to smile at the h.s. and business college classes ... I was right there with ya! I've been very blessed to enjoy (most) of my secretarial positions .. even without a nail file :). (God bless 1950's television!)
ReplyDeleteI understand becoming a Nurse is really, really difficult; and probably more so once you start applying what you've learned? For sure, I don't have the wits, but I sure admire your moxie!
Thank you Myra. Yes, the 1950's sure gave the secretary a much more glamorous look that the real job entails. But then it does that with nursing too. I haven't seen a nurse depicted with poop or blood on her uniform. And I've had that plenty of times.
DeleteI like to read stories on how people came to be what they are. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading Sue!
DeleteIt's funny..we all jump jump and jump and then end up right where we are meant to be 😃
ReplyDeleteLovely read. Looking forward to more of Ur experiences.
I'm working on them!
DeleteNice start to your series. $18,000 a year was a lot back then:)
ReplyDeleteYes, it was. Sure not now!! But I still stand behind the good money nurses make as being enough!
DeleteInteresting how you came to it. My mother said she always knew she wanted to be a nurse (since she was, like, 5). Went right into nursing school after high school. She was working full-time by the time she was 21. She's been a nurse longer than I've been alive.
ReplyDeleteNope, being a nurse is never something I wanted to do. But it is a career I loved!
DeleteThis was a great post! I enjoy reading life stories of people and learning how they became who they are today. I am glad you found who you were meant to be.
ReplyDeleteHave a blessed day. :)
Thank you Suzanne!
DeleteI love that this wasn't your first choice! I, too, thought an office sounded awesome. I do work in an office, but not up front with all the people coming and going, and I actually enjoy what I do now!
ReplyDeleteI am glad. It is important to like what you have to do for a living!!
DeleteThere is nothing worse than going to a job you hate every day and nothing more rewarding than finding a career that suits you. I am looking forward to reading your story. Great start.
ReplyDeleteI think that is true Wendy!
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