Wednesday, August 26, 2015
Today is the last Wednesday of August. Tomorrow will be the kids first day of school. Today I am joining Joyce at From This Side of the Pond for the Wednesday Hodgepodge. Care to join us?
She provides the prompts; we give our answers!!
Ready, set, Go!
1. It's hard to believe, but next week's Hodgepodge will find us in the month of September. What's one thing you want, need, or hope to do still before summer officially ends?
At our house, summer officially ends tomorrow. The first day of school is the beginning of fall. I know that is not what the calendar says. But it is what I say. And at my house what I say goes! I don't have anything I want to do before summer is over. All the plans I have will still work next week. What about you? Anything you are wanting to do yet this summer?
2. When were you last at 'your wit's end'?
Oh my! This is hard. I am at my wit's end all the time. I am going to say Saturday night. I was trying to talk to Darian about why it is not a great idea to leave his 'cords' (lap top charger, phone charger, etc.) stretched across his bedroom floor and then walk on them. He wants to 'argue' with me. (Damn that debate class). The more I tried to rationalize the outcome of doing this, the more he argued that he wasn't walking on the cords. After the battle was over (if battles like this are ever really over) I wondered why I was arguing with him. Let him learn the lesson the hard way. If the cords become unable to work then HE buys new cords. Save the arguments for things that really matter. Why is that so hard for parents (grand or otherwise) to learn. I come from a generation of 'do as I say because I said so!
3. Describe a time you were figuratively thrown into 'the deep end'?
I don't know if I would call this 'figuratively'....when 2 little kids, ages 8 and 10, showed up on my doorstep, needing a home, I felt as if I was being thrown in the deep end. Thrown to the wolves. Asked to do something I'd already done. Taking on a task I really didn't want to do. And to make it work for all of us. For several months after that day I walked through a fog. I did what I had to do! Would I do it again? Absolutely. But I would be better prepared. Wouldn't I?
4. Does the end always, ever, or never justify the means? Explain.
Well....I think this depends! I know, I know! That wasn't one of the possibilities. But it should have been. Because there just isn't any one answer to this question. I think it depends on the end. And what it takes you to get there. Is it legal? Is it honest? Is it good? If one is trying out for a certain position in a company and you lie about other candidates to make yourself look best then the end is NOT justified by the means. To me! Others may think that all is fair in love and war. I don't happen to be one those people. All is not fair if it hurts someone else. Right? I fall into the belief that it is never justified to do something bad in order to gain something good. So I guess I am going to stick with that. If it is illegal, immoral, dishonest, or bad then the end never justifies the means. Are you thoroughly confused yet????
5. What makes your hair stand on end?
This expression means, to me, what scares me so badly that my hair would 'figuratively' stand on it's end. Only one thing comes to mind. And that is mice. Mice scare me to death. (just an expression, friends). But I do feel as if I am going to die when I see, hear, or think about mice. I am terrified! Hope I don't see any mice anytime soon.
6. I read an article on the website Eat This! Health, that listed 11 foods we can eat to help end bad moods. Basically it's a feed your brain so you're less anxious, grouchy and lethargic. The foods are-mussels, swiss chard, blue potatoes, grass fed beef, dark chocolate, greek yogurt, asparagus, honey, cherry tomatoes, eggs, and coconut. Which of those do you think would most help end your own bad mood? Which do you fear, if forced to eat, would put you into a bad mood?
Some grass-fed beef, along with steamed asparagus, would end my bad mood right now. I also love honey, cherry tomatoes, eggs, Greek yogurt, and coconut. Not a fan, at all, of dark chocolate. Don't know why anyone would chose to eat that when milk chocolate is available. I do not like mussels at all!! Not a fan of Swiss chard! And I have never heard of blue potatoes. So I am pretty sure, if someone is forcing me to eat any of those things, I would be in a bad mood.
7. What project around your home, office, or life in general feels like there is 'no end in sight'?
This one is easy for me. It has to be Darian's bedroom. Before Richard died last year I was making Darian's bedroom more his! It had been Richard's office. The walls were painted and wallpapered in a golf theme. Darian is not into golf. So I stripped the wallpaper and spackled the blemishes. And then Richard took a turn for the worse and I never got the paint on the walls. That was a year ago. I don't know why I am having such a hard time finishing this project. But I am. I have to buy the paint, open it, give it a stir, and dip in a brush. How hard can that be???
8. Insert your own random thought here.
Speaking of my beloved Richard. It has now been 13 months since he left us. I still miss him everyday. Just the other day I saw someone at the store that I hadn't seen in quite awhile and my first thought was "wait until I tell Richard." Whoa! That took me by surprise. I miss him. But the grief is not as horrifying as it once was. I am making it through full days without crying once. I am healing. I am moving forward. (Maybe there is hope yet to get that room painted.)