We have a bed in our living room. A hospital bed with an alternating air-flow mattress. This type of mattress will help to treat and prevent any pressure sores that might develop. Richard has a couple on his bottom from having spent the last year sitting in either his recliner or his wheelchair. We have gel-pads in both chairs but it just wasn't enough to prevent him from having sores develop. He is no long able to lift himself up, even a tiny fraction, to relieve the pressure. Now my biggest challenge is to get him to try out the bed. He told our son the other day..."I must be getting near the end if she thinks I need a hospital bed." We spent the weekend trying to convince him that just isn't so. We explained several times why we thought the bed would be better for him. The bed was delivered yesterday afternoon. He just sat and watched as it was set up. He didn't say a word to the delivery man who brought it. He didn't want to try it out. "Maybe tomorrow." I am thankful that I have a large living room and it will accommodate the bed, as well as a sofa and two recliners. Not to mention my little nook behind the sofa where my computer is. But we still had to move a lot of furniture around. And store what wouldn't fit in another room. I am beginning to look more and more like a care home!
We also had another visit with the re-certification nurse. I understand she will now come every 60 days to see that he still needs Hospice. It is a Medicare requirement. She says that failing appetite and more sleeping will continue to qualify him. That, of course, is good news to us.(That he still qualifies, not that he continues to fail). Paying for all of this would be a nightmare otherwise. I think it is crazy that Medicare will pay this sum of money each month to Hospice yet won't pay the room and board portion to the nursing home, should we need it. It is because the kind of care that Richard needs is called custodial care not medically necessary care. Sometimes it is just hard to understand why the rules are the way they are. But I am grateful for Hospice and what they do for us.